Case Example: Open-Ended Story
Story of Three Brothers and One Sister
In a small town in India three brothers and their young sister had grown up with strong family bonds to each other and to their aging widowed mother.
The eldest brother lnder was happily married and had three children, two daughters and one son. Being a truck driver he was away from home a great deal but he loved his family and his ambition was to make enough money so he could send his son through school and college. That way he would not end up as a truck driver like himself. "Life is hard for a truck driver" he would say "long trips, stuck behind a wheel. We only get a break every 400 kms. or so, at a dhaba along the road". Inder did not indulge in drugs as some of his friends did, instead he relaxed by going to a sex worker at a dhaba or by having sex with one of the male attendants who service the trucks.
The second brother, Amar, was married to Anita, a pretty young woman. They had no children. He worked as an office peon, a job he found very boring. After work he like to stop at a tavern on his way home and it soon became a habit. Anita could often smell alcohol on his breath but dared not question him. Very soon he was drinking away most of his salary. "When he is drunk he beats me up for the least provocation." Anita said, "Often he blames me because we have no children and says I brought him bad luck." In spite of his abuse Anita tried to be a dutiful wife. She never even insisted on his using a condom during sex, for fear of his bad temper. Occasionally when he was in a drunken asleep she would sneak out to earn a few rupees doing odd jobs in the neighborhood. Neighbors liked her and tried to help.
The third brother Sunil was very fortunate in having had technical training after high school. He had a good job as a foreman at a small manufacturing company and was doing well. Sunil lived with his mother, Radha and his sister, Rani, He knew his mother wanted to get him married but he was in no hurry, preferring to wait until he got a promotion before "settling down" in life. Besides, his sister Rani was only 14 and needed his guidance.
Tragedy struck all three brothers in different ways. Very soon lnder became seriously ill, with a fever and diarrhea which he could not explain. Lila urged him to see a doctor but he was reluctant to take time off from his work. "If I don't make money how will I send our son to college?" he would say. Finally as his health got worse he went to a doctor. When he tested HIV-positive the doctor told him not to come to see him anymore. "If people find out I am treating HIV positive people they will stop coming to see me," he said "if I lose my patients how will I pay my bills?"
As news of illness spread around, people began to speculate "what kind of disease he had contracted?" Soon even those people who used to come to him for advice avoided him. Neighbors no longer chatted with his wife as before. Worse still his children's classmates taunted them at school. So he told his wife to go to her parent's home taking the children with her, to which she obediently agreed "But who will look after you" she asked in tears, knowing fully well that nobody would.
The situation of the second brother Amar also deteriorated fast. Because he came to the job drunk one day he got fired. To make ends meet, his wife Anita took on menial work in the neighborhood for minimal wage. Even that money he would demand from her for his drinking habit or beat her up badly if she refused. One day a woman whose house she cleaned said to her very confidentially, "Why do you put up with such a life? You are still young and pretty. You can earn a good income in sex work and you can do it from my own house. Nobody will know. Come over late tonight when your husband is asleep." Anita was scared. The idea of having sex with strange men repulsed her, yet she needed the money. How else would she and her husband survive? Financially, it was ok for a while, but didn't last.
She found she could not continue because her husband Amar, had also become seriously ill just like Inder, and she herself had developed genital ulcers. She was in great physical pain and worried but to whom could she turn? Not to her mother who would be deeply grieved. Certainly not to her mother-in-law who already blamed her for her husband's alcoholism. In desperation, she thought of her young sister-in-law, Rani. So she pleaded with Sunil to have Rani stay with her. Rani could also help take care of Inder who lived close by and was very, very, sick by now.
Sunil of course was most troubled over the misfortunes that had struck both his brothers. He decided to share his concern confidentially with his closest friend, Ram, who knew many doctors and hospitals. Sunil did not tell him everything, only about the ill-health of his oldest brother, the truck driver. Without hesitation, Ram said: "Oh ho, he's a truck driver, eh, then he's had it. Your brother's illness must be AIDS. Be careful. Stay away from him. If not, you yourself will get infected and you will infect us all." He was so stern that Sunil was more worried than ever.
Very soon, on the rumors about Inder’s mysterious illness seemed to have spread even to Sunil’s office. How, he will never know. Somehow, even his boss's attitude towards him seemed strained, almost as if he didn't trust him. Then within a month the boss actually fired him. For what reason? What had he done? His work had been so good over the last year that he had been given a substantial raise. Why then this change? But he could get no explanation from his boss who would not even see him.
Sunil was angry but determined not to be defeated. He thought his boss was very short- sighted. Without a good foreman the productivity of the company would go down. Then many families would be in trouble. But how could he get his boss to listen? Meanwhile Sunil had to find a solution for his own family crisis. The situation was so complex. But there must be a way out. He would begin by having Rani drop out of school so she could look after Anita and Inder. He knew Rani would protest. She would be scared about the illness, scared that she might contract it. But never mind. He would see to it that she agreed.
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